Here is a list of where you can currently find PLA people. This list was last updated in October 2011:
Tinychat: tinychat.com/cactuscactus is PLA's Tinychat room. We recently move from tinychat.com/phonelosers because the original admin on there disappeared.
phonelosers.org/chat has this chatroom embedded into it.
Telephone Bridge: 253-397-1819 is TheN's personal bridge number that gets used by the PLA a lot lately. There is currently no official bridge number because they all keep disappearing, so let's just steal TheN's and not tell him. Keep in mind that although he's a nice guy, he's still probably able to grab your phone number infoz when you call, so you should take steps to block it if you care about that sort of thing.
IRC: We're on the efnet network, in rooms #phonelosers and #rock.
phonelosers.org/chat has #phonelosers embedded into it if you're too stupid to figure out IRC clients.
Anything else I should add to this? I set up a Stickam room at
http://www.stickam.com/group/phonelosersofamerica because I was really hating Tinychat's new tiny video windows last week, but nobody is ever in there.